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I would love any ring that was given to me by the person that I am in love with. If you are close enough to this person to want to marry her, she should know and understand you and why you feel the way that you do.

If you really want to be sure, mention this before hand or point out a ring similar to the one that you describe, in a jewelry store and see what her reaction is. If she really loves you and wants to marry you, the ring really doesn’t have much to do with it.

I would and I think your girl would too. Just explain your reasoning behind it and I am sure that she would love it. It sounds like you really put some thought into the ring, any girl would feel special.

That ring sounds perfect. I comletely agree with you about diamonds. Mine is an amber ring on recycled white gold

Definitely. I think it’s just as nice. Plus, it’s mean a lot to you cultural wise, and she would definitely enjoy it as much as a huge diamond engagement ring.

of cos…cos it is from someone i love. the meaning behind the gift is more important than the value

I would. But, you need to ask your girlfriend/fiance if she would be happy with it.

Another idea is this - wedding sets come pretty cheap at pawn shops compared to a retail establishment and I don’t think there is anything wrong getting an expensive ring at 10% of the cost when it’s only fault is that it was worn before - more people should do that, actually, what with all the divorces and sets being pawned every day - for practically nothing, I might add.

If the ring held special meaning OF COURSE… besides the two of you love each other its not about a ring- thats just a symbol.
I would be proud of a ring my man gave me no matter what it was!

If I loved someone I would take it.

yes i would and especially more if you explained why this means so much to you.

I think that you are right to much hype about big stones. I think if you look together and there is meaning behind the ring choosen then that is all the should matter. My ring is a heart shape peridot( My birthstone) so that has more mean than just a diamond

Honestly, you know your girl better than any of us and know if she’d be okay with it…personally, I say it’s a wonderful idea. It’s something unique and truly something you’ve put thought and effort into which makes it even more special. Imagine the story she’ll get to tell people when she shows them the ring…it’ll be a great one! Most girls would love for their guy to give the ring so much thought and care.

well i can’t speak for the other women that reply but i would say yess…. and not only that not many men don’t think like that, also i think that, that is different and who cares about a huge diamond any women that goes by the size of the ring is just plain ole materialistic that is my opinion Go For It!!!!!

The ring and rock aren`t important. The thing that matters is what it represents - love and commitment.

Personally, I have always wanted a diamond, but you have a cultural reason for choosing the ring you have, so I think that is a different story. You should talk to her about it though.

I would because I know how things can have special meaning. My engagement ring was rubies and diamonds because that had special meaning for me and my husband.

My first engagement “ring” was a coke tab ! I still have it tucked away after almost 30 years. If she loves you she will also love your choice of ring, I think your idea is very sweet !

If your girlfriend can’t see that something like that is special, then she’s not worth marrying.

If it’s from the man I want to marry, any ring would be wonderful. In fact, the very fact that you’ve thought so much about it would make it even more special instead of just going to the mall and buying any old diamond. Hopefully your girlfriend would feel the same, but I know some women are tied to the idea of “the rock.” You should know her well enough to know whether she’d be ok with it or not.

Of course I would. The ring should stand for your love and should not be based on weather it is a diamond and turquoise. If she loves you it will not matter to her what it is.
And the ring you are talking about sounds very beautiful and I am sure she will be proud to wear it and show it off.

Good luck hun
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I would be MORE then happy to accept it, afterall a proposal is so much more meaningful then a rock.
But, I would not be proud of it… and that’s just me. I’m a little older and more traditional. I know there are some younger girls who would be hip to the idea.
I wouldn’t make excuses though, I’d just say that you thought the turquoise stone was so much more beautiful and unique then a diamond - just like the girl you are proposing to.
good luck.

The answer to this question lies within your woman. If she is a woman who would appreciate the significance of the turquoise ring as you do, then I would say go for it. But if you know deep down inside she will resent it, then it doesn’t make any sense for you to buy anything other than a diamond. Remember, she will be the one wearing it. Not you. You want her to be proud of wearing your ring, not resentful. Also, if you would like to purchase a non-conflict diamond (non-blood diamond), go to Their diamonds come from Canadian diamond mines. they are non-conflict diamonds.

Sorry buddy, I’d have to go traditional although who says it has to be huge? BUT, if she is the same nationality she may agree with you, If not , chances are she won’t go for it but you can still talk it over with her and maybe add smll turquoise around the diamond. Ahh, compromise is a beauty as may be the ring. Let her design it, it may work!

Yes, I would. Although you should ask her before you purchase this. If it is a family heirloom, explain the history, and the prosperity significance to her. Explain your choices anyway, and she will most likely accept. If later in your life, she wants the traditional diamond engagement ring, she will let you know now. Some women consider it a lifetime tradition too, and it may be years before she expects it, like the 10th year anniversary DeBeers diamond ring, although she may want it, and don’t blame her if she does.

Obviously I would love it even more! A mature woman doesn’t care about the size or kind of ring, usually, it’s the symbolism which is important.
Good for you for putting so much thought into it! Hope the two of you include ethnic traditions in your wedding as well!
Wish you luck!

I absolutely love the idea of using a gemstone as the center stone, rather than a diamond. It’s original and very unique. I would definitely and enthusiastically accept such a ring. And it sounds like you have put a lot of thought into the meaning of the stone. Turquoise is an unusual choice because of its irregularities in color and texture. I would take into consideration whether that type of stone fits her style, etc. Regardless I think she will be excited to be getting married to you. She is lucky to have someone so thoughtful. Good luck to you both.

Yes because it come from someone I love it doesnt matter what it looks like its a symbol of your love not how much money was spent on it

The fact that you have put this much thought into the ring itself shows how much you care and means more than the “tradition” of a diamond solitaire. By choosing a ring based on a blending of culture and style, you have done a beautiful job of symbolizing a good marriage and any woman who deserves to wear such a ring will be proud to wear it for her lifetime and to help others understand the significance of the stone, of your choosing it, and of your time together. I think it’s a wonderful idea.

Totally proud. It’s not about the ring, its about the committment. I’d rather have a small ring (or no ring) and a great man, than an expensive ring and a crappy man.

i agree with you all the way. i definitely would accept a ring like you described. it is the thought that counts and to me it would make it even more special when the ring comes with special meaning. my engagement ring and wedding band are like that. they came with special meaning. they were my grandma’s rings.

absolutely!!!! that’s the purpose of the ring,to mean something!!!! i think it’s very romantic

I received a big sapphire with two small diamonds next to it. And I love it. I would most certainly except the ring you picked out as well. She should be happy you are asking her to marry you, not how big the stone is or what it is.

Absolutely!!!!!!!!!

I am proud of my wedding ring. I don’t have nor do I want a huge diamond on it. It was given to me with love from my husband. I don’t see why she wouldn’t.

The ring isn’t important, its the thought behind it. But I think thats a really nice idea. Its unique. I’m not that into diamonds either so personally I would really love it. I would gladly show it off! Its sweet how you’re putting a lot of thought into this ring, rather than just buying a regular diamond. You know what your girlfriend likes though. If she’s the type to like diamonds then it might not be a great idea. Hopefully whatever you get her she’ll love =)

I think it is a beautiful idea and would mean more to me than a HUGE diamond. Maybe write a nice poem to go with it to explain the sentiment behind it. I am sure she will love it.

Good luck and I say Go for it

I’d rather have a ring given with meaning and true love than any huge rock. Personally I do not like diamonds that much, they look cold and soulless to me, and they do not suit my skin tone. My fiance got me the most beautiful eternity style setting with tanzanites, which are my favourite stone and as they are blue they are also his favourite colour. It shows you have put thought into the decision rather than just following the masses and buying a diamond.